My husband and I will be together 18 years this fall. I read 132 books last year. My husband has read perhaps half a dozen books in all the years we’ve been together.
I’m not quite sure how I ended up with a husband who doesn’t read. I must have fallen in love with his other good qualities.
For years, this frustrated me. There are books I want him to read, that I just know he’ll love, but when I recommend them, he says, “maybe.” (Which means no.)
Earlier this year, when I was editing my novel, Not Dead Enough, I wanted to discuss it with him, but he hadn’t read it.
At the same time, I got advice that when editing a book, you should read it out loud.
The light went on. I could combine the oral read-aloud with having my husband read the book, by reading it to him.
He loved the idea. So, over the course of a few weeks, that’s what we did. Sometimes it was only one or two chapters in a night, and sometimes we read several.
I did catch mistakes I hadn’t caught the first eleventy-billion times I read it silently to myself, and my husband did have good input.
This has become our thing. If I’m reading a non-fiction book I think he might like, I mark passages (either with a highlighter or post-it flag, depending on if I own the book or not) to read out loud to him later. This method has generated some interesting discussions.
Before I started reading audiobooks, this method never would have occurred to me. But reading is reading, and I do enjoy discussing books.
Do you have any tricks for engaging a non-reader?