Nothing ventured, nothing gained, right? If you sit on the couch all day, every day, you’ll never have “failed,” but you’ll never have succeeded either.
I’m still a work in progress, and I haven’t ventured in every way I want to… yet. I have the usual things on my list yet to come, including travel. I was talking to someone the other day who was recalling a conversation with another person about how Person 1 thought Person 2 was spending too much money on vacations and travel. “Why aren’t you saving for retirement?” Person 1 asked. “Because I’m investing in memories,” Person 2 replied. Isn’t that a great quote?
One of the biggest things on my bucket list is getting one of my novels published. I’ve had friends who’ve tried to offer their version of support by telling me that it’s a waste of my time. I spend too much time writing, and for what? I’ve had a few short stories published and was paid varying amounts for them, but nothing that’s going to pay my mortgage. Isn’t that a waste?
I’d write for free. I write just for me. I love to see my words in print, but mostly because I feel like I’m sharing something with other people, not because I want to be famous and make millions. (Though if there’s someone out there who’d like to pay me millions for my words, don’t hesitate to contact me.)
There are times when doing a cost-benefit analysis makes good sense. Like when you’re considering leaving a job you hate, or when you’re considering if that new energy efficient refrigerator will really save you money. But when you’re considering whether or not to do something you love, something that you’d do for free vs. not doing it because it takes up so much of your time, it makes no sense.
So, back to the quote I put at the very beginning. That’s not the whole quote. It’s actually: “Nothing ventured, nothing gained. And venture belongs to the adventurous.” -Navjot Singh Sidhu
“Life’s an adventure. And every day, I’m just getting started.” -Doree Weller